Mean Stinks: A New Program from Secret.

I just got word of an amazing program that Secret has launched in conjunction with the Girls Leadership Institute, best-selling author and girl-expert Rachel Simmons and teen girls themselves. The campaign is called Mean Stinks.

Mean Stinks is a program to help end the mean streak for good. The mean streak here is bullying.


Being a parent, one thing I constantly worry about is bullying. I have dealt with it. My kids have dealt with it. At one time or another - everyone deals with bullying.

So, what exactly is bullying in this day and age, and what can be done to combat it?

Well, bullying is an aggressive behavior that involves negative actions and an imbalance of power. Bullies have been around since the beginning of time, but technology is a game changer. The Internet is the new bathroom wall, and the explosion of texting and social media has made bullying infinitely more destructive.

Secret has set up an interactive community called Mean Stinks over on Facebook. Here, girls have access to experts, tips, tools and resources for dealing with bullies or even being a bully themselves. The experience goes on to offer girls an opportunity to make amends with others by submitting an apology through a video, as it inspires other girls to fearlessly face the challenges associated with aggressive behavior and bullying.

There are so many ways to celebrate fearlessness, be kind and inspire others to do the same through Secret Mean Stinks, which include...

  • Upload video apologies
  • Have a chance to win free T-shirts
  • Download an application to evaluate the kindness of your Facebook updates
  • Submit sticky situations  
  • Post good graffiti on friends' walls
  • Engage with experts

The entire program is a very safe, friendly and fun online forum where teens are free to express themselves in a positive way. I really think this is so important. When someone you know reaches out, they will inspire friends and other teens to celebrate fearlessness.

I commend Secret for this creative. As Secret has always been a brand about women and celebrating fearlessness, this Mean Stinks program continues that heritage and focuses on giving girls the skills, they need to end the mean streak of bullying once and for all. I hope a lot of you, your daughters, nieces, friends, etc. get involved in the effort. As adults, we need to be mentors, stop gossiping ourselves and set a leading example.

For more information on Secret, visit it's brand website, and the Mean Stinks program on the site and on Facebook.

The Ultimate Girls Getaway: ybf Cruise.

How great does a floating spa at sea with some great friends and makeup sound right about now? It sounds more than divine to me.

Former model and makeup guru Stacey Schieffelin of ybf is taking her fun-filled, girl power movement to the tropics for the fifth time to bring you Pajama Party at Sea. You can join your best friend Stacey for four days of relaxation, renewal, learning, laughs and best of all new girlfriends. Stacey is offering a unique opportunity for women to escape the stress of daily life and bask in the beauty of the Caribbean surrounded by your best friends, new and old! For the first time ever, the cruise is available in the US and will invite our favorite girlfriends from the UK. Talk about the ultimate girls getaway!

Stacey’s Pajama Party at Sea takes place on the luxury Royal Caribbean Cruise Majesty of the Seas, fully equipped with all your entertainment must-haves. Indulge in fine dining at one of the five on-board restaurants, sweat and sculpt at the fitness center, save on style with luxury duty-free shopping, and try your luck at the Vegas-inspired casino.

And that’s not all; join Stacey and the ybf team for more unforgettable experiences including:

  • A private cocktail party
  • Beauty makeover sessions
  • Inspirational sessions with the ybf life coach
  • Tons of gorgeous giveaways
  • A ybf makeup kit for every Girlfriend loaded with your favorite ybf products worth over $500!
  • Memories that will last a life time

Tickets will be on sale soon for the cruise that leaves Miami to go to the Bahamas and Key West, leaving on July 11 and returning on the 15th.  For pricing and to sign up, visit here.

While I will not be going, I will be testing some of the ybf products for the first time and I can't wait. Look for more on these beauties over the next few weeks.

 

Time to Toss the Old Makeup.

As the new year is here, it is a great time to think about cleaning out your makeup bag or drawer.

Like just about anything you use on your body, beauty products do expire and go bad over time. I know it is hard to think about throwing away something that may have barely been used, but for safety sake, it really is for the best.

There are lists all over the web about what to toss and when, but I am getting this advice right from the master, Bobbi Brown. As listed in her book The Makeup Manual, these are Bobbi's suggestions.

Your products will expire in the following amount of time after first opening.

Liquid and Cream Foundation - 2 years
Concealer - 2 years
Powder - 2 years
Mascara - 6 months
Lipstick - 12 to 18 months
Lip and Eye Pencils - 12 to 18 months
Eye Shadow - 2 years
Powder Blush - 2 years
Cream Blush - 2 years
Moisturizer - 2 years
Eye Cream - 6 months
Sunscreen - 2 years
Face Cream - 2 years

If your items are from MAC, do not throw them away. Bring them back to MAC, for their BACK TO MAC recycling program. For every six items of primary MAC packaging that you return to them for recycling, you can get one free lipstick of your choice.